Vagina Value / Vagina= Value

Image of the vagina

Who taught you self value and self-worth? At what stage of your education, did they start to instil the things to make you secure in you?
How were values and morals taught to you? By what standards were those set? What were you told when you were old enough to understand the most valuable thing you had?

Different cultures and races teach other things. We all have specific values and morals that we try to teach our children in different ways.
The way the rich man educated his daughter is different from the poor man. They both have wisdom and understanding of the ways of the world, but the opportunities are diverse. One is the value of self, and the other taught herself is the value. That the power to change her life, is determined by her vagina power.
The vagina value has two very distinct views. The way it is taught makes or breaks the woman she will become.
I was praying about a matter, and I heard vagina=value. I stopped to listen. How have the things we have seen been taught indeed affected how we saw ourselves growing up?
Who values the vagina more? Was that the one that got the time and effort from us as women even if they didn’t deserve it? Was he the one you choose because you didn’t know how to look? Were you, are you still looking for value through the vagina? So you couldn’t settle down with one person or even can’t? Do you think the time has run out and you have not found someone to value the vagina?
I know the critics are there waiting to say “what is sis Krystal (Lafieta)writing about” How about some truth? Considering the values, we held on to that did our girls a great injustice. We taught the power of the vagina should be equal to the house or car; you should get because of it. Should our mothers before us have focused on learning how to love yourself, how to value your self and then teach our girls?

Abandoned by a father from the ghetto, raised by a single mother who said get an education no one can take that from you. Who taught her anything else? Who taught her to value herself, the community? Who taught her that rejection from one man should not alter self-esteem? What to look for when the example of a man wasn’t the real picture. Because before the abandonment the vagina had value nothing was lacking.

What then?
How then do you imagine things should be?
Misconceptions of self lead to disastrous actions.
The aim to get to that place, look at your past and grow from it.
Build a new you, with a new mindset.
Work on changing the things within you that the devil tried to use to destroy you. Work on looking through eyes that used to see boundaries in love and value. Recognize that I am more, much more than these things. That the aim then is not to find someone who values the vagina, but someone who loves you.

So deal with the low self-esteem, rejection, multiple partners, allowing yourself to blend in and not stand out, the mindset of waiting for a saviour who should only be Jesus Christ, the hurt, the pain, the confusion. Pick anyone and take your time…to heal